Monday, 29 December 2008
{ 13:04:00 }
conversation with chelle over why we hang on to our rship..
its been quite a while since we've catch up on so many goin ons in our lives
so we were talking about men & why their sucha hassle.
some of the things we took as our discussion examples
(main points are in italics & underlined);
boys will alwys be boys, they tend to cheat, they're overprotective
they tend to lie, too egoistic, not supportive of our interests,
too overpowering, paranoid over their gf, despise their gf's guybuddies,
we cant contact opposite gender but they can, they're alwys right
they have rights to befriend anyone, etc.
after much discussion, we pondered why we still hang on..
isit cos we're sick of dating? NO, we love dating
in fact, dating was like our forte but we were alwys too picky
perhaps guys these days are so typical or predictable? NOPE, they're diff.
hard to find the ones with proper character? VERY TRUE!
guys are mostly players & dont follow their religions? YEPP, haiz..
finally, we concluded that its..
PROVE: we need them to potray the fact that they arent alwys the same
TRUTH: we pray they'll quit lying if they say they love us, etc
LOVE: we love them too much & stood by them though we got broken
therefore, we need them to PROVE TRUE LOVE(:
haha! we dont know, but seems like our paths sounded similar
since secondary sch, downfalls, pitfalls, blackhole.. we went thru together
probably giving up on a rship would be easy for others, but
imagine being singletini our entire lives? NO WAY!
maybe we'll get married, if hubby cheats.. we'll dump them!
cos we're career women! so we still have a wide variety of men to evaluate
idk, it was a funny conversation of life & MEN these days.
thanks chelle, glad we had the conversation.
